Misconceptions Around Competitiveness

Misconceptions Around Competitiveness

    Mentioning it exclusively in individual terms, competitiveness can be referred to as an individual behaviour either towards a specific goal or as a general form of behaviour towards the outside world. There are no ethical problems with being competitive as long as a person strives to do the best by achieving something, being aware that the people around them can perform better, or assuming that perhaps they are not yet ready for the goal they want. Notwithstanding, being competitive can be a problem if one loses the perspective mentioned above. Part of that comes from messages sent by agents who lurk around the wildest capitalism. An example of this could be the books and talks that became popular at the beginning of this century about self-help to be a successful person. In those books and talks, there were messages like “If you want 10, go for 20”, or "Defeat is not an option; the only thing that matters is winning; who wants to be a loser?" that are toxic and can lead people to lose their way and begin to see other people as mere adversaries who must be defeated instead of human beings with feelings that can be hurt. They can also lead people to reduce the meaning of life to mere competition, losing the perspective that life is more than that. On the other hand, although the ontological meaning of being competitive implies competing with someone who has the same objective of ultimately winning or being surpassed by another, is that really what it is about? Yes, indeed, but let's put aside the term “competitiveness” for a moment and focus on the individual skills that one must have to be competitive that have been achieved through an individual process. Let's make a few assumptions with a quick construction using a simplistic premise in which I use the term "filter" as the process in which humans decode information from the outside world in a genuine way, just to set up the background. Each one of us has a cognitive filter through which everything we perceive from the outside world is filtered and decoded in a genuine way, so our experiences throughout life—fears, intrinsic survival skills, enjoyment, etc.—have partly shaped this filter, as I assume that the other percentage of this shaping is innate; we already have it when we get born. That would help explain how two people who are born in the same conditions, environments, and social contexts can be completely different from each other. Therefore, this shaped filter has a direct influence on our actions and, consequently, on the development of our skills, so each person perceives things differently (maybe slightly, maybe intensely); therefore, our skills are genuinely different from each other.

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Returning to the beginning of this article, in which I proposed competitiveness as a behavior that could be taken in the wrong way, my approach is that although circumstances lead people to compete with others for the same objective, in the end it is not about overcoming or being surpassed by someone but rather having better specific skills at a specific time for a specific objective, which, as a person, does not imply being better or worse, nor being a winner or a loser or other toxic messages that have been spread through for agents with dubious objectives. Therefore, there is no one to defeat, and there is no reason to be afraid of being defeated and feeling like a loser since each person has genuine abilities. It's about what skills best fit a specific goal at a specific time.

 

Antoni Font 15/09/2023 (revised 22/09/2023), Aberdeen.